To my elderly brothers and
sisters!
"Seventy is the sum of our years, or eighty if we are
strong, and most of them are fruitless toil, for they
pass quickly and we drift away" (Ps 90:10)
1. Seventy years was an advanced age
when the Psalmist wrote these words, and few people lived
beyond it. Nowadays, thanks to medical progress and
improved social and economic conditions, life expectancy
has increased significantly in many parts of the world.
Still, it remains true that the years pass quickly, and
the gift of life, for all the effort and pain it
involves, is too beautiful and precious for us ever to
grow tired of it.
As an older person myself, I have felt the desire to
engage in a conversation with you. I do so first of all
by thanking God for the gifts and the opportunities which
he has abundantly bestowed upon me up to now. In my
memory I recall the stages of my life, which is bound up
with the history of much of this century, and I see
before me the faces of countless people, some
particularly dear to me: they remind me of ordinary and
extraordinary events, of happy times and of situations
touched by suffering. Above all else, though, I see
outstretched the provident and merciful hand of God the
Father, who "cares in the best way possible for all that
exists" (1) and who "hears us whenever we ask for
anything according to his will" (1 Jn 5:14). With the
Psalmist, I say to him: "You have taught me, O God, from
my youth, and till the present I proclaim your wondrous
deeds. And now that I am old and grey, O God, forsake me
not, till I proclaim your strength to every generation
that is to come" (Ps 71:17-18).
My thoughts turn with affection to all of you, dear
elderly people of all languages and cultures. I am
writing this letter to you in the year which the United
Nations Organization has appropriately wished to dedicate
to the elderly, in order to direct the attention of
society as a whole to the situation of all those who,
because of the burden of their years, often have to face
a variety of difficult problems.
In this regard the Pontifical Council for the Laity has
offered some helpful points for reflection.(2) In this
Letter I wish simply to express my spiritual closeness to
you as someone who, with the passing of the years, has
come to a deeper personal understanding of this phase of
life and consequently feels a need for closer contact
with other people of his own age, so that we can reflect
together on the things we have in common. I place all
this before the eyes of God who embraces us with his love
and who sustains us and guides us by his providence.
2. Dear brothers and sisters, at our
age it is natural to revisit the past in order to attempt
a sort of assessment. This retrospective gaze makes
possible a more serene and objective evaluation of
persons and situations we have met along the way. The
passage of time helps us to see our experiences in a
clearer light and softens their painful side. Sadly,
struggles and tribulations are very much a part of
everyone's life. Sometimes it is a matter of problems and
sufferings which can sorely test our mental and physical
resistance, and perhaps even shake our faith. But
experience teaches that daily difficulties, by God's
grace, often contribute to people's growth and to the
forging of their character.
Beyond single events, the reflection which first comes to
mind has to do with the inexorable passage of time. "Time
flies irretrievably", as the ancient Latin poet put
it.(3) Man is immersed in time; he is born, lives and
dies within time. Birth establishes one date, the first
of his life, and death another, the last: the "alpha" and
the "omega", the beginning and end of his history on
earth. The Christian tradition has emphasized this by
inscribing these two letters of the Greek alphabet on
tombstones.
But if the life of each of us is limited and fragile, we
are consoled by the thought that, by virtue of our
spiritual souls, we will survive beyond death itself.
Moreover, faith opens us to a "hope that does not
disappoint" (cf. Rom 5:5), placing us before the
perspective of the final resurrection. It is no
coincidence that the Church, at the solemn Easter Vigil,
uses the same two Greek letters in reference to Christ
who lives yesterday, today and for ever: He is "the
beginning and the end, Alpha and Omega. All time belongs
to him and all the ages".(4) Human experience, although
subject to time, is set by Christ against the horizon of
immortality. He "became a man among men, in order to join
the beginning to the end, man to God".(5)
A complex century towards a future of
hope
3. In speaking to the elderly, I know
I am speaking to and about people who have made a long
journey (cf. Wis 4:13). I am speaking to my
contemporaries, and so I can readily draw an analogy from
my own personal experience. Our life, dear brothers and
sisters, has been situated by Providence in this
twentieth century, which arrived with a complex
inheritance from the past and has witnessed many
extraordinary events.
Like so many other times in history, our own has
registered lights and shadows. Not all has been bleak.
Many positive aspects have counterbalanced the negative,
or have emerged from the negative as a beneficial
reaction on the part of the collective consciousness. Yet
it is true too -- and it would be both unjust and
dangerous to forget it! -- that unprecedented sufferings
have affected the lives of millions and millions of
people. We need but think of the conflicts which erupted
on different continents as a result of territorial
disputes between States or inter-ethnic hatred. Nor
should we consider any less serious the conditions of
extreme poverty afflicting broad segments of society in
the Southern Hemisphere, or the shameful phenomenon of
racial discrimination and the systematic violation of
human rights found in many nations. And what are we to
say of the great global conflicts?
In the first part of the century there were two of them,
with casualties and destruction never previously known.
The First World War killed millions of soldiers and
civilians, cutting off so many human lives in adolescence
or even childhood. And what of the Second World War?
Breaking out after a few decades of relative peace in the
world, especially in Europe, it was even more tragic than
the first, with enormous consequences for the lives of
nations and continents. It was all-out war, an unheard-of
mobilization of hatred, which struck brutal blows even
against defenceless civil populations and which destroyed
entire generations. The toll paid on various fronts to
the madness of war was incalculable; equally terrifying
was the slaughter which took place in the death camps,
which truly remain the Golgothas of our time. The second
half of the century was burdened for long years by the
nightmare of the cold war, the conflict between the two
great opposing ideological blocs, East and West. This was
accompanied by an insane arms race and the constant
threat of an atomic war capable of bringing humanity to
extinction.(6)
Thank God, that dark page of history was closed with the
fall in Europe of oppressive totalitarian regimes as the
result of a peaceful struggle, which relied on the
weapons of truth and justice.(7) This in turn initiated a
difficult but fruitful process of dialogue and
reconciliation aimed at establishing a serene and
fraternal coexistence between peoples.
But all too many nations are still very far from enjoying
the benefits of peace and freedom. In recent months great
concern has been caused by the outbreak of violent
conflict in the Balkans, which had earlier been the
theatre of a terrible war with ethnic undertones. Further
blood was shed, further destruction took place, further
hatred was nourished. Now that the clash of arms has at
last ceased, thought is being given to reconstruction as
the new millennium approaches. But meanwhile, on other
continents too, numerous hotbeds of war continue to
erupt, at times with massacres and acts of violence which
are all too soon forgotten by the world press.
4. While these memories and these
painful happenings sadden us, we cannot forget that our
century has also seen the appearance of many positive
signs which represent so many sources of hope for the
Third Millennium. There has been a growing consciousness
-- albeit amid numerous inconsistencies, especially where
respect for the life of each human being is concerned --
of universal human rights, proclaimed in solemn and
binding international declarations.
Moreover, there has been a continuing development of a
sense of the right of peoples to self-government in the
context of national and international relations, inspired
by an appreciation of cultural identity together with
respect of minorities. The fall of totalitarian systems,
like those of Eastern Europe, has led to growth in the
universal perception of the value of democracy and of the
free market, although the great challenge of uniting
freedom and social justice still remains.
We must also consider it a great gift of God that the
world's religions are striving with ever greater
determination to carry on a dialogue which would make
them a fundamental factor of peace and unity in the
world.
Then too, there has been an increasing recognition of the
dignity of women. Undeniably there is still far to go,
but the trail has been blazed. A further reason for hope
is the rapid expansion of communications which, thanks to
present-day technology, have made it possible to reach
beyond established borders, making us feel that we are
citizens of the world.
Another important area of growth is the new ecological
awareness which deserves encouragement. Another source of
hope is the great progress made in medicine and the
contribution of science to human well-being.
There are many reasons, then, for giving thanks to God.
All things considered, these final years of our century
present immense potential for peace and progress. From
the very adversities which our generation has experienced
there comes a light which can brighten the years of our
old age. Here we see the confirmation of a principle
central to the Christian faith: "Tribulations not only do
not destroy hope; they are its foundation".(8)
It is appealing, then, that, as this century and this
millennium approach their twilight and the dawn of a new
season for humanity can already be seen on the horizon,
we should stop to meditate on how quickly time flies, not
in order to resign ourselves to an inexorable fate, but
rather to make full use of the years we still have before
us.
The autumn of life
5. What is old age? At times it has
been referred to the autumn of life -- so Cicero calls it
(9) -- following the analogy suggested by the seasons and
the successive phases of nature. We need but look at the
changes taking place in the landscape over the course of
the year, on the mountains and in the plains, in the
meadows, valleys and forests, in the trees and plants.
There is a close resemblance between our human
bio-rhythms and the natural cycles of which we are a
part.
At the same time however man is set apart from all other
realities around him, precisely because he is a person.
Made in the image and likeness of God, he is conscious
and responsible. Even in his spiritual dimension, though,
he experiences the succession of different phases, all
equally fleeting. Saint Ephrem the Syrian liked to
compare our life to the fingers of a hand, both to
emphasize that its length is no more than a span, and to
indicate that each phase of life, like the different
fingers, has its particular character, and "the fingers
represent the five steps by which man advances".(10)
Consequently, whereas childhood and youth are the times
when the human person is being formed and is completely
directed towards the future, and -- in coming to
appreciate his own abilities -- makes plans for
adulthood, old age is not without its own benefits. As
Saint Jerome observes, with the quieting of the passions,
it "increases wisdom, and brings more mature
counsels".(11) In a certain sense, it is the season for
that wisdom which generally comes from experience, since
"time is a great teacher".(12) The prayer of the Psalmist
is well known: "Teach us to number our days aright, that
we may gain wisdom of heart" (Ps 90:12).
The elderly in Sacred Scripture
6. "Youth and the dawn of life are
vanity", observes the Preacher (Ec 11:10). The Bible does
not hesitate to point out, at times with blunt realism,
the fleeting nature of life and the inexorable passage of
time: "Vanity of vanities..., vanity of vanities, all is
vanity" (Ec 1:2). Who is not familiar with this stern
warning of the ancient Sage? Those of us who are older,
schooled as we are by experience, understand it in a
special way.
Despite such wry realism, Scripture maintains a very
positive vision of the value of life. Man remains for
ever made "in the image of God" (cf. Gen 1:26), and each
stage of life has its own beauty and its own tasks.
Indeed, in the word of God, old age is so highly esteemed
that long life is seen as a sign of divine favour (cf.
Gen 11:10-32). In the case of Abraham, in whom the
privilege of old age is stressed, this favour takes the
form of a promise: "I will make of you a great nation,
and I will bless you and make your name great. I will
bless those who bless you and him who curses you I will
curse; in you all the families of the earth will be
blessed" (Gen 12:2-3). At Abraham's side is Sarah, a
woman who sees her body growing old, yet experiences
within the limitations of her aging flesh the power of
God who makes good every human shortcoming.
Moses too was an old man when God entrusted him with the
mission of leading the Chosen People out of Egypt. It was
not in his youth but in his old age that, at the Lord's
command, he did mighty deeds on behalf of Israel. Among
other examples of elderly people in the Bible, I would
mention Tobit, who humbly and courageously resolved to
keep God's Law, to help the needy and to endure blindness
patiently, until the angel of God intervened to set his
situation aright (cf. Tob 3:16-17). There is also
Eleazar, whose martyrdom bore witness to an exceptional
generosity and strength (cf. 2 Macc 6:18-31).
7. The New Testament, filled with
the light of Christ, also contains eloquent examples of
elderly people. The Gospel of Luke begins by introducing
a married couple "advanced in years" (1:7): Elizabeth and
Zechariah, the parents of John the Baptist. The Lord's
mercy reaches out to them (cf. Lk 1:5-25, 39-79).
Zechariah, already an old man, is told that a son will be
born to him. He himself makes the point: "I am an old man
and my wife is well on in years" (Lk 1:18). During Mary's
visitation, her elderly kinswoman Elizabeth, filled with
the Holy Spirit, exclaims: "Blessed are you among women
and blessed is the fruit of your womb!" (Lk 1:42), and
when John the Baptist is born, Zechariah gives voice to
the Benedictus. Here we see a remarkable older couple,
filled with a deep spirit of prayer.
In the Temple at Jerusalem, Mary and Joseph bring Jesus
to offer him to the Lord, or rather, in accordance with
the Law, to redeem him as their first-born son. There
they meet the aged Simeon, who had long awaited the
Messiah. Taking the child in his arms, Simeon blesses God
and proclaims the Nunc Dimittis: "Lord, now let your
servant depart in peace" (Lk 2:29).
At Simeon's side we find Anna, a widow of eighty-four, a
frequent visitor to the Temple, who now has the joy of
seeing Jesus. The Evangelist tells us that "she began to
praise God and spoke of the child to all who were looking
for the redemption of Jerusalem" (Lk 2:38).
Nicodemus too, a highly-regarded member of the Sanhedrin,
was an elderly man. He visited Jesus by night in order
not to be seen. To him the Divine Teacher reveals that he
is the Son of God who has come to save the world (cf. Jn
3:1-21). Nicodemus appears again at the burial of Jesus,
when, bringing a mixture of myrrh and aloes, he overcomes
his fear and shows himself a disciple of the Crucified
Lord (cf. Jn 19:38-40). How reassuring are all these
examples! They remind us that at every stage of life the
Lord can ask each of us to contribute what talents we
have. The service of the Gospel has nothing to do with
age!
And what shall we say of Peter in his old age, called to
bear witness to his faith by martyrdom? Jesus had once
said to him: "When you were young you girded yourself and
walked where you would; but when you are old, you will
stretch out your hands, and another will gird you and
carry you where you do not wish to go" (Jn 21:18). These
are words which, as the Successor of Peter, touch me
personally; they make me feel strongly the need to reach
out and grasp the hands of Christ, in obedience to his
command: "Follow me!" (Jn 21:19).
8. As if to recapitulate the
splendid images of elderly people found throughout the
Bible, Psalm 92 proclaims: "The just will flourish like
the palm-tree, and grow like a Lebanon cedar..., still
bearing fruit when they are old, still full of sap, still
green, to proclaim that the Lord is just" (vv. 13,
15-16). Echoing the Psalmist, the Apostle Paul writes in
his Letter to Titus: "Bid the older men be temperate,
serious, sensible, sound in faith, in love, and in
patience. Bid the older women likewise to live in a way
appropriate to believers...; they are to teach what is
good, and so train the young women to love their husbands
and children" (2:2-5).
Thus the teaching and language of the Bible present old
age as a "favourable time" for bringing life to its
fulfilment and, in God's plan for each person, as a time
when everything comes together and enables us better to
grasp life's meaning and to attain "wisdom of heart". "An
honourable old age comes not with the passing of time",
observes the Book of Wisdom, "nor can it be measured in
terms of years; rather, understanding is the hoary crown
for men, and an unsullied life, the attainment of old
age" (4:8-9). Old age is the final stage of human
maturity and a sign of God's blessing.
Guardians of shared memory
9. In the past, great respect was
shown to the elderly. "Great was once the reverence given
to a hoary head", says Ovid, the Latin poet.(13)
Centuries earlier, the Greek poet Phocylides had
admonished: "Respect grey hair: give to the elderly sage
the same signs of respect that you give your own
father".(14)
And what of today? If we stop to consider the current
situation, we see that among some peoples old age is
esteemed and valued, while among others this is much less
the case, due to a mentality which gives priority to
immediate human usefulness and productivity. Such an
attitude frequently leads to contempt for the later years
of life, while older people themselves are led to wonder
whether their lives are still worthwhile.
It has come to the point where euthanasia is increasingly
put forward as a solution for difficult situations.
Unfortunately, in recent years the idea of euthanasia has
lost for many people the sense of horror which it
naturally awakens in those who have a sense of respect
for life. Certainly it can happen that, when grave
illness involves unbearable suffering, the sick are
tempted to despair and their loved ones or those
responsible for their care feel compelled by a misguided
compassion to consider the solution of "an easy death" as
something reasonable. Here it should be kept in mind that
the moral law allows the rejection of "aggressive medical
treatment" (15) and makes obligatory only those forms of
treatment which fall within the normal requirements of
medical care, which in the case of terminal illness seeks
primarily to alleviate pain. But euthanasia, understood
as directly causing death, is another thing entirely.
Regardless of intentions and circumstances, euthanasia is
always an intrinsically evil act, a violation of God's
law and an offence against the dignity of the human
person.(16)
10. There is an urgent need to
recover a correct perspective on life as a whole. The
correct perspective is that of eternity, for which life
at every phase is a meaningful preparation. Old age too
has a proper role to play in this process of gradual
maturing along the path to eternity. And this process of
maturing cannot but benefit the larger society of which
the elderly person is a part.
Elderly people help us to see human affairs with greater
wisdom, because life's vicissitudes have brought them
knowledge and maturity. They are the guardians of our
collective memory, and thus the privileged interpreters
of that body of ideals and common values which support
and guide life in society. To exclude the elderly is in a
sense to deny the past, in which the present is firmly
rooted, in the name of a modernity without memory.
Precisely because of their mature experience, the elderly
are able to offer young people precious advice and
guidance.
In view of all this, the signs of human frailty which are
clearly connected with advanced age become a summons to
the mutual dependence and indispensable solidarity which
link the different generations, inasmuch as every person
needs others and draws enrichment from the gifts and
charisms of all.
Here the reflections of a poet dear to me are pertinent:
"It is not the future alone which is eternal, not the
future alone!... Indeed, the past too is the age of
eternity: Nothing which has already happened will come
back today as it was... It will return, but as Idea; it
will not return as itself".(17)
"Honour your father and mother"
11. Why then should we not continue
to give the elderly the respect which the sound
traditions of many cultures on every continent have
prized so highly? For peoples influenced by the Bible,
the point of reference through the centuries has been the
commandment of the Decalogue: "Honour your father and
mother", a duty which for that matter is universally
recognized. The full and consistent application of this
commandment has not only been a source of the love of
children for their parents, but it has also forged the
strong link which exists between the generations. Where
this commandment is accepted and faithfully observed,
there is little danger that older people will be regarded
as a useless and troublesome burden.
The same commandment also teaches respect for those who
have gone before us and for all the good which they have
done: the words "father and mother" point to the past, to
the bond between generations which makes possible the
very existence of a people. In the two versions found in
the Bible (cf. Ex 20:2-17; Dt 5:6-21), this divine
commandment is the first of those inscribed on the second
Tablet of the Law, which deals with the duties of human
beings towards one another and towards society.
Furthermore, it is the only commandment to which a
promise is attached: "Honour your father and mother, so
that your days in the land which the Lord your God gives
you may be long" (Ex 20:12; cf. Dt 5:16).
12. "Rise in the presence of one
with grey hair; honour the person of the older man" (Lev
19:32). Honouring older people involves a threefold duty:
welcoming them, helping them and making good use of their
qualities. In many places this happens almost
spontaneously, as the result of long-standing custom.
Elsewhere, and especially in the more economically
advanced nations, there needs to be a reversal of the
current trend, to ensure that elderly people can grow old
with dignity, without having to fear that they will end
up no longer counting for anything. There must be a
growing conviction that a fully human civilization shows
respect and love for the elderly, so that despite their
diminishing strength they feel a vital part of society.
Cicero himself noted that "the burden of age is lighter
for those who feel respected and loved by the
young".(18)
Furthermore, while the human spirit has some part in the
process of bodily aging, in some way it remains ever
young if it is constantly turned towards eternity. This
experience of enduring youthfulness becomes all the more
powerful when to the inner witness of a good conscience
is joined the sympathetic concern and grateful affection
of loved ones. Then, as Saint Gregory of Nazianzus
writes, a man "will not grow old in spirit, but will
accept dissolution as the moment fixed for the freedom
which must come. Gently he will cross into the beyond,
where there is neither youth nor old age, but where all
are perfect in spiritual maturity".(19)
We are all familiar with examples of elderly people who
remain amazingly youthful and vigorous in spirit. Those
coming into contact with them find their words an
inspiration and their example a source of comfort. May
society use to their full potential those elderly people
who in some parts of the world -- I think especially of
Africa -- are rightly esteemed as "living encyclopaedias"
of wisdom, guardians of an inestimable treasure of human
and spiritual experiences. While they tend to need
physical assistance, it is equally true that in their old
age the elderly are able to offer guidance and support to
young people as they face the future and prepare to set
out along life's paths.
While speaking of older people, I would also say a word
to the young, to invite them to remain close to the
elderly. Dear young people, I urge you to do this with
great love and generosity. Older people can give you much
more than you can imagine. The Book of Sirach offers this
advice: "Do not disregard what older people say, because
they too have learnt from their parents" (8:9); "Attend
the meetings with older people. Is there one who is wise?
Spend time with him" (6:34); for "wisdom is becoming to
the elderly" (25:5).
13. The Christian community can
receive much from the serene presence of older people. I
think first of all in terms of evangelization: its
effectiveness does not depend principally on technical
expertise. In how many families are grandchildren taught
the rudiments of the faith by their grandparents! There
are many other areas where the elderly can make a
beneficial contribution. The Spirit acts as and where he
wills, and quite frequently he employs human means which
seem of little account in the eyes of the world. How many
people find understanding and comfort from elderly people
who may be lonely or ill and yet are able to instil
courage by their loving advice, their silent prayers, or
their witness of suffering borne with patient acceptance!
At the very time when their physical energies and their
level of activity are decreasing, these brothers and
sisters of ours become all the more precious in the
mysterious plan of Providence.
In addition to the obvious psychological need of the
elderly themselves, the most natural place to spend one's
old age continues to be the environment in which one
feels most "at home", among family members, acquaintances
and friends, where one can still make oneself useful. As
the number of older people increases, keeping pace with
the rise in average life expectancy, it will become more
and more important to promote a widespread attitude of
acceptance and appreciation of the elderly, and not
relegate them to the fringes. The ideal is still for the
elderly to remain within the family, with the guarantee
of effective social assistance for the greater needs
which age or illness entail.
On the other hand, there are situations where
circumstances suggest or demand that they be admitted to
"homes for the elderly" where they can enjoy the company
of others and receive specialized care. Such institutions
are indeed praiseworthy, and experience shows that they
can provide a valuable service when they are inspired not
only by organizational efficiency but also by loving
concern. Everything becomes easier when each elderly
resident is helped by family, friends and parish
communities to feel loved and still useful to society.
How can we fail to mention here, with admiration and
gratitude, the Religious Congregations and volunteer
groups specifically devoted to the care of the aged,
especially the poor, the abandoned and those in
difficulty?
Dear elderly friends who feel insecure because of ill
health or other circumstances, I assure you of my
closeness and affection. When God permits us to suffer
because of illness, loneliness or other reasons
associated with old age, he always gives us the grace and
strength to unite ourselves with greater love to the
sacrifice of his Son and to share ever more fully in his
plan of salvation. Let us be convinced of this: he is our
Father, a Father rich in love and mercy!
My thoughts turn in a special way to you, widows and
widowers, who find yourselves alone in the final part of
your lives; to you, elderly men and women Religious, who
for long years have faithfully served the cause of the
Kingdom of Heaven; and to you, dear brother Priests and
Bishops, who, for reasons of age, no longer have direct
responsibility for pastoral ministry. The Church still
needs you. She appreciates the services which you may
wish to provide in many areas of the apostolate; she
counts on the support of your longer periods of prayer;
she counts on your advice born of experience, and she is
enriched by your daily witness to the Gospel.
"You show me the path of life, in your presence
there is fullness of life" (Ps 16:11)
14. It is natural that, as the years
pass, we should increasingly consider our "twilight". If
nothing else, we are reminded of it by the very fact that
the ranks of our family members, friends and
acquaintances grow ever thinner; we become aware of this
in a number of ways, when for example we attend family
reunions, gatherings of our childhood friends, classmates
from school and university, or former colleagues from the
military or the seminary. The line separating life and
death runs through our communities and moves inexorably
nearer to each of us. If life is a pilgrimage towards our
heavenly home, then old age is the most natural time to
look towards the threshold of eternity.
And yet, even we elderly people find it hard to resign
ourselves to the prospect of making this passage. In our
human condition touched by sin, death presents a certain
dark side which cannot but bring sadness and fear. How
could it be otherwise? Man has been made for life,
whereas death -- as Scripture tells us from its very
first pages (cf. Gen 2-3) -- was not a part of God's
original plan but came about as a consequence of sin, as
a result of "the devil's envy" (Wis 2:24). It is thus
understandable why, when faced with this dark reality,
man instinctively rebels. In this regard it is
significant that Jesus, "who in every respect has been
tempted as we are, yet without sin" (Heb 4:15), also
experienced fear in the face of death: "Father, if it be
possible, let this cup pass from me" (Mt 26:39). How can
we forget his tears at the tomb of his friend Lazarus,
despite the fact that he was about to raise him from the
dead (cf. Jn 11:35)?
However rationally comprehensible death may be from a
biological standpoint, it is not possible to experience
it as something "natural". This would contradict man's
deepest instincts. As the Council observed: "It is in the
face of death that the riddle of human existence becomes
most acute. Not only is man tormented by pain and by the
advancing deterioration of his body, but even more so by
a dread of perpetual extinction".(20) This anguish would
indeed be inconsolable were death complete destruction,
the end of everything. Death thus forces men and women to
ask themselves fundamental questions about the meaning of
life itself. What is on the other side of the shadowy
wall of death? Does death represent the definitive end of
life or does something lie beyond it?
15. Human history, from the most
ancient times down to our own day, has provided a number
of simplistic answers which limit life to what we
experience on earth. In the Old Testament itself, certain
passages in the Book of Ecclesiastes seem to present old
age as a building in ruins and death as its final and
utter destruction (cf 12:1-7). But precisely against the
backdrop of these pessimistic attitudes there shines
forth the hope-filled outlook present in revelation as a
whole and particularly in the Gospel: "God is not God of
the dead, but of the living" (cf. Lk 20:38). The Apostle
Paul affirms that God, who gives life to the dead (cf.
Rom 4:17), will also give life to our mortal bodies (cf.
ibid., 8:11). And Jesus says of himself: "I am the
resurrection and the life; he who believes in me, though
he die, yet shall he live, and whoever lives and believes
in me shall never die" (Jn 11:25-26).
Christ, having crossed the threshold of death, has
revealed the life which lies beyond this frontier, in
that uncharted "territory" which is eternity. He is the
first witness of eternal life; in him human hope is shown
to be filled with immortality. "The sadness of death
gives way to the bright promise of immortality".(21)
These words, which the Church's Liturgy offers as a
consolation to believers as they bid farewell to their
loved ones, are followed by a proclamation of hope:
"Lord, for your faithful people life is changed, not
ended. When the body of our earthly dwelling lies in
death we gain an everlasting dwelling place in
heaven".(22) In Christ, death -- tragic and disconcerting
as it is -- is redeemed and transformed; it is even
revealed as a "sister" who leads us to the arms of our
Father.(23)
16. Faith thus illuminates the
mystery of death and brings serenity to old age, now no
longer considered and lived passively as the expectation
of a calamity but rather as a promise-filled approach to
the goal of full maturity. These are years to be lived
with a sense of trusting abandonment into the hands of
God, our provident and merciful Father. It is a time to
be used creatively for deepening our spiritual life
through more fervent prayer and commitment to the service
of our brothers and sisters in charity.
Most commendable then are all those social programmes
enabling the elderly to continue to attend to their
physical well-being, their intellectual development and
their personal relationships, as well as those enabling
them to make themselves useful and to put their time,
talents and experience at the service of others. In this
way the capacity to enjoy life as God's primordial gift
is preserved and increases. Such a capacity to enjoy life
in no way conflicts with that desire for eternity which
grows within people of deep spiritual experience, as the
lives of the saints bear witness.
Here the Gospel reminds us of the words of the aged
Simeon, who says he is ready to die now that he has held
in his arms the long-awaited Messiah: "Lord, now you let
your servant depart in peace, according to your word; for
my eyes have seen your salvation" (Lk 2:29-30). The
Apostle Paul felt torn between the desire to continue
living in order to preach the Gospel, and the desire "to
depart and be with Christ" (Phil 1:23). Saint Ignatius of
Antioch, joyfully going to his martyrdom, said that he
could hear within him the voice of the Spirit, like
living "water" welling up inside of him and whispering
the invitation: "Come to the Father".(24) These examples
could be multiplied. They cast no doubt whatsoever on the
value of earthly life, which is beautiful despite its
limitations and sufferings, and which ought to be lived
to its very end. At the same time they remind us that
earthly life is not the ultimate value, in such a way
that the twilight of life can be seen -- from a Christian
perspective -- as a "passage", a bridge between one life
and another, between the fragile and uncertain joy of
this earth to that fullness of joy which the Lord holds
in store for his faithful servants: "Enter into the joy
of your master" (Mt 25:21).
An encouragement to live life to the
full
17. In this spirit, dear elderly
brothers and sisters, as I encourage each of you to live
with serenity the years that the Lord has granted you, I
feel a spontaneous desire to share fully with you my own
feelings at this point of my life, after more than twenty
years of ministry on the throne of Peter and as we await
the arrival, now imminent, of the Third Millennium.
Despite the limitations brought on by age, I continue to
enjoy life. For this I thank the Lord. It is wonderful to
be able to give oneself to the very end for the sake of
the Kingdom of God!
At the same time, I find great peace in thinking of the
time when the Lord will call me: from life to life! And
so I often find myself saying, with no trace of
melancholy, a prayer recited by priests after the
celebration of the Eucharist: In hora mortis meae voca
me, et iube me venire ad te at the hour of my death, call
me and bid me come to you. This is the prayer of
Christian hope, which in no way detracts from the joy of
the present, while entrusting the future to God's
gracious and loving care.
18. "Iube me venire ad te!": this is
the deepest yearning of the human heart, even in those
who are not conscious of it. Grant, O Lord of life, that
we may be ever vividly aware of this and that we may
savour every season of our lives as a gift filled with
promise for the future.
Grant that we may lovingly accept your will, and place
ourselves each day in your merciful hands.
And when the moment of our definitive "passage" comes,
grant that we may face it with serenity, without regret
for what we shall leave behind. For in meeting you, after
having sought you for so long, we shall find once more
every authentic good which we have known here on earth,
in the company of all who have gone before us marked with
the sign of faith and hope.
Mary, Mother of pilgrim humanity, pray for us "now and at
the hour of our death". Keep us ever close to Jesus, your
beloved Son and our brother, the Lord of life and
glory.
Amen!
From the Vatican, 1 October 1999.